Sacred AF Men’s Circle
Why this space matters to me
I think I need to say something honestly about why I created this space.
Sacred AF Men’s Circle was never created because it was trendy.
Not because it “looks good.”
Not because I suddenly decided to step into men’s work.
This comes from twenty years of sitting with human pain.
I’m trauma-informed.
I’ve founded and headed a charitable organisation.
I’ve worked in therapeutic and group spaces for two decades.
I’ve facilitated groups since 2006.
I’ve worked as a domestic abuse specialist.
I’ve supported children, teenagers, men, women, survivors, families, and people living through profound trauma, grief, violence, fear, addiction, shame, and survival.
And alongside all of that, I also work intuitively.
Energetically.
Human to human.
Not from superiority.
Not from performance.
But from deep presence and attunement.
Over the years, I’ve worked with countless boys and young men who were already carrying more than most adults know how to hold.
Young men who were angry, shut down, terrified, grieving, violent, silent, disconnected, abandoned.
Young men the system had already decided were “problems.”
I remember one boy walking out of my group in the very first session.
I let him go.
Because I don’t believe in forcing people open.
He came back himself the following week.
Years later, when he moved to high school and struggled emotionally, he refused support from everyone else but specifically asked for us to come back in.
I’ve had security guards standing outside rooms while I worked with boys schools were preparing to permanently exclude.
I’ve sat with rage.
Pain.
Fear.
Numbness.
And then watched those same young men soften enough to bake me a fucking cake at the end of it all.
That’s what people don’t understand about this work.
Underneath so much male behaviour is pain that has never had permission to breathe.
And this is personal for me too.
My father was a victim of domestic abuse.
I watched what silence did to him.
I’ve watched my own son wrestle with deep questions around masculinity, identity, fear, and inherited pain after growing up around profound trauma.
And I know how dangerous it is when boys and men grow up without healthy reflections of manhood, safety, emotional expression, or support.
So no…
This space is not performative for me.
I believe men deserve spaces to heal.
I believe women and men heal humanity together.
Not through division.
Not through blame.
But through truth, safety, accountability, compassion, and real human connection.
That is why this space exists.
If you want to join us for Sacred AF Men’s Circle, the link is below.
And if my work speaks to you, subscribe.
We’re building something very real here.
With Sacred love and fire
Ami.❤️🔥
If you have any questions, please feel free to message me.💫
🤴🏽Men’s Circle
Sacred AF Men’s Circle begins 20th May
7PM BST • 2PM EDT • 11AM PDT
A live space for men ready to reconnect more deeply to themselves, their emotions, their energy, their truth and the way they relate to life, intimacy and connection.
A space for honest conversation, awareness, presence, nervous system truth and conscious human connection.
Together we explore embodiment, self-awareness, relationships, energy, emotional depth, spirituality and what it means to remain connected to yourself while living fully as a man in this world.
Real depth.
Real presence.
Real connection.
If you want to discuss the group, please feel free to drop me a message.💫
And if my work speaks to you, subscribe.
We’re building something very real here.




What stayed with me most here wasn’t the language about energy or spirituality, but the very human moments underneath it.
The image of a boy leaving the room and then choosing to come back on his own.
The idea that beneath so much male silence there is often unspoken pain waiting for permission to breathe.
That part felt real.
Ami this is not only inspiring. But I think what you’re doing is so important. I’ve worked with my own partner for years bc he grew up feeling abandoned. Having to be the man of the house. Taking care of his siblings. Internalizing his feelings bc he wasn’t given the tools to express vulnerability and after 10 years I’m so proud of how he’s grown and taken everything I’ve taught him. I’d love to learn more about what you do if it’s ok if I message you. This is something I’m passionate about as well. Men need safe spaces fuck color religion etc just men period. And wombmen do too. But the fact that you have been through things as well you’re trauma informed. That’s incredible so honored to know you.